Dear KMMT Supporter,
As the festive season approaches, we wanted to thank you for your support and share the impact that Karen's Homes from Home continue to make on thousands of leukaemia patients and their families across the UK. People like Colin and Susan*, who stayed in Karen's Home at Addenbrooke's Hospital in Cambridge and so appreciated the precious, quality time together that it gave them:
Colin and Susan were convinced that Colin was suffering from the flu but Susan dragged him to the doctor to be on the safe side. The next thing they knew they were being told to take him straight to their local hospital (45 minutes’ drive away) and he was admitted to the acute ward. Susan left him there and drove to his 86 year old parents to tell them "not to panic, he's just being kept in overnight because he's dehydrated." That evening he was diagnosed with leukaemia and transferred to Addenbrooke's by ambulance in the middle of the night. Susan drove to Cambridge the next morning – a 2-hours, 80-miles trip.
His chemotherapy started immediately. Susan didn't go home, worked from his bedside in the hospital whilst friends looked after their house, cat and Colin’s elderly parents. After weeks of checking, a Karen’s Home became available. Susan nearly cried when the ward clerk told her. She could sleep on a proper bed with proper sheets (not a rubber mattress) and a duvet. She enjoyed being able to have a bath and began sleeping much better. She could wash Colin’s clothes overnight.
Meanwhile, Colin couldn't bear the hospital food and the dietician threatened to insert a tube if he didn't eat. Susan’s mother was able to join her and cooked meals at Colin’s request. When groups of friends visited Colin, Susan’s mother gave them tea and cake in the kitchen/living room of Karen’s Home while they went up to the ward two at a time. After they had seen him, their friends and family came back to the flat to recover and ask questions.
He had three more cycles and each time they would ask if Karen's Home was available. On these visits, Susan brought him in a wheelchair to the flat every morning, returning to the ward for more chemo after lunch, and being let out for dinner. He could join her in the evening, enjoying home-cooked food and watching TV together. Friends visited whenever they could, and stayed as long as they wanted, not worrying about disturbing other patients.
Sadly, none of Colin’s treatments worked and he passed away less than eight months after diagnosis. Susan said “Karen's Home enabled us to be human beings and a couple. Not a patient and his carer. It contributed massively to the wellbeing of us both: helping me stay sane and sleep. It allowed us privacy and quality time together. It meant we could hug each other. It helped his friends and family to visit and made a difficult time more bearable for them.”
With the cost of living impacting millions of people across the country, Karen's Homes help to ease the financial pressure for residents at a very difficult time in their lives. We do hope you will wish to support Karen's Trust at this festive season with whatever you can afford. Just £10 a month will in one year fund three nights' accommodation for a leukaemia patient's family - and with treatment moving to daily treatment but without the need to overnight in hospital, more and more leukaemia patients are enjoying the comforts of a Karen's Home. Please click here to donate or use the attached form to set up a regular gift,
At this time of giving please remember the Karen Morris Memorial Trust, the charity set up to continue the fundraising initiative of my sorely missed daughter. With just 1% of our income going on administration you know that your donation will go where it is most needed: to easing the emotional pain of a leukaemia diagnosis for patients and their families.
Wishing you and your families a Happy Festive Season and a Healthy, Peaceful 2023. Sylvia
*Names have been changed to protect the identity of our residents
Sylvia Morris MBE
Chair, Karen Morris Memorial Trust
Karen Morris Memorial Trust - Thanks
3rd December 2022